Spotify Ideas

you should only share  info when user wants to.

I have 2 concerns regarding Spotify that in my opinion qualifies as privacy breaches,
and I therefore have some suggestions.

1. When I press "Delete" playlist on one of the playlists created and composed by myself in my left column the playlist is NOT in reality deleted.

The playlist lives on by itself in the cloud for anyone who subscribed to that list or knows the url even after I have "deleted" it.
I think the concept and the wording is really misleading and it takes away my control of my own data:
Either the wording in the right-click menu should be changed to "Unlink"
OR the "Delete" option should have an additional tickbox named "Flush Playlist content before deletion".

2. If I share one of the playlists created by myself with one of my friends and that playlist is NOT set to "Published" in my profile it still becomes a "Published" playlist in the profile of my friend (if he/she has the autopublish preference turned on I believe and maybe regardless of the option as well).
I think I myself should be in control of my own data and therefore decide if my playlist should be a "Published" playlist or not, even when my playlist is available to others via my friends. It is still MY playlist.

Is this a conscious blurring of privacy concerns because ultimately Spotify only cares about increasing clicks and not so much about respecting the privacy of its users?