Okay, so I had originally opened this account and merged it with my Facebook account, but I had to delete that account after an ex started stalking it so now I have a new account but it won't let me change the Facebook account it is merged with, how can i do that?
Since your previous account was linked to your Facebook profile, you won't be able to link it to your new one without disconnecting your old account first.
Don't worry, our Accounts team can help you with this. You can get in touch with them from any of our social media help sites: @SpotifyCares on Twitter and Spotify Cares on Facebook. Just send them a private message with your account's email address and username.