There was a song that was a favorite of mine back in the late 2000's (2007-2009) that I can't remember for the life of me. I remember that it was sung by a woman and from what I remember a lot of the lyrics involved "you" and "he" or "him". I know how obscure that sounds, but for what it's worth these lyrics were comparing one to the other like a relatively upbeat love song in favor of "you". Please help me find it! Genre would be pop and I believe that is was played on Q102 for a while? Help!