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This is odd. As long as she lives at your same address, she shouldn't have a problem to join your Premium for Family plan. Can you send her a new invite? We suggest that she tries to accept it from a computer, using a Google Chrome incognito window.
Make sure that she logs into the right account when accepting the invite.
Let us know if that helps.
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