Hey @aobayley, thanks for reaching out to the Community!
Spotify is often testing and launching improvements and new features, which might explain why you're not seeing a feature your friend is seeing. These features might also be temporary. There is more info on this here.
It seems like your iOS is up to date. Just make sure to keep your app updated to get the newest version of the app.
Have a nice day!
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