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I am so angry. I have been a premium Spotify user for years and always thought that my songs were showing up on my followers/friends Friend Feed. I recently saw a friend of mine's desktop app open and I wasn't on there at all, despite listening for hours every single day on the desktop app and phone app. I asked them if I ever show up and they said they have NEVER seen me there, yet all of their other followers are there. I constantly see my friend's songs playing in my feed, but how come I am not showing up in theirs? I honestly went years thinking that people could see my songs/playlists from there and feel like a fool! I recently noticed that other's are having issues with the friend feed. 

What is going on!? I have my activity set to share. How do I fix this issue? It really bugs me that I am a paying member and I am dealing with this! I would like to speak to someone on the phone regarding this but I'm not seeing a place to do that.