You will need to get in touch with the customer services team directly using the online contact form and they will be able to assist you with this.
You can also Tweet / DM @SpotifyCares.
Make sure you're including as much detail as you can, such as any possible email addresses you might have used to create the account and any possible purchases and they will be able to lend a hand.
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