Please note that you can only sync local files to a non iPod touch. There's more information on this here.
If it's not even showing up in devices:
Have you tried running Spotify as an administrator?
Try temporarily disabling your firewall, or creating an inbound and outbound TCP exception for spotify.exe.
Also, if it's the latest version and that doesn't help, unfortunately you may be experiencing a bug outlined here.
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