Hello!
Collaborate means that you and your friends can add songs to a playlist, are any of the songs local files in the playlists (songs you downloads from iTunes, Amazon)? If so, you would need to connect your iPhone to the same Wifi network and sync it that way, here is good post on this.
Hope this helped 🙂
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